FAQ

Frequently asked questions

Trusted by discerning professionals in more than 100 cities worldwide. Explore answers to the questions we hear most from new and returning members.

Privacy&Safety

Discover the signs that a curated approach can help you meet someone aligned with your pace, priorities, and privacy expectations.

  • Your WUMA profile is not publicly searchable or openly accessible.
    Select profiles may be displayed in a limited, curated preview format showing only general information and selected images to introduce the WUMA community and reflect the quality of our members.

    Full profiles, additional photos, and detailed information are only shared with registered and approved clients, and exclusively for matchmaking purposes. Personal contact details, identification data, and sensitive information are never disclosed.

    Discretion and privacy remain central to every stage of the WUMA experience.

  • At WuMa International, we take privacy and safety very seriously. Unlike public dating platforms, all client information is kept strictly confidential and is never made available

     online. Profiles are shared only with carefully selected, pre-screened matches approved by your dedicated matchmaker.

    To protect our clients, WuMa uses a thorough verification process for all members, ensuring authenticity and sincerity. We also operate with secure data handling

     practices and provide ongoing guidance to help clients recognize and avoid common online dating risks.

    With WuMa, you can trust that your personal details and introductions remain discreet, secure, and focused solely on building genuine, long-term connections.

  • WUMA takes member verification seriously to maintain a trusted and high-quality community. As part of our onboarding process, we conduct reasonable identity and background verification to confirm that members are genuine and aligned with our standards.

    This may include reviewing personal information and conducting appropriate background checks where necessary. All verification is handled confidentially and solely for the purpose of ensuring authenticity, safety, and integrity within our matchmaking network.

    While no verification process can guarantee outcomes, WUMA is committed to creating a respectful, secure, and professional environment for our clients through careful screening and ongoing discretion.

About WUMA

Take a peek into our discovery interviews, photography sessions, and profile curation that set the foundation for intentional introductions.

  • No. To protect the quality and integrity of our community, we carefully review and approve members. Not all applications are accepted.

  • WUMA offers a bespoke, high-end matchmaking experience built on discretion, intention, and personal attention. Unlike app-based platforms or volume-driven agencies, WUMA focuses on quality over quantity, with every match thoughtfully curated by experienced matchmakers.

    Our clients benefit from a highly personalized process, strict verification standards, and access to an exclusive international network. We take the time to understand each individual’s values, lifestyle, and long-term goals, ensuring introductions are meaningful and aligned.

    Above all, WUMA is defined by privacy, professionalism, and cultural sensitivity, providing a refined environment for clients who seek serious, long-term relationships without compromise.

  • WuMa International stands apart from traditional dating services by offering a luxury, personalized, and cross-cultural matchmaking experience. Every client is paired with a

    dedicated matchmaker who provides one-on-one guidance, tailored introductions, and ongoing support throughout the journey.

    Unlike generic services that focus on volume, WuMa emphasizes quality, exclusivity, and discretion. Our introductions are carefully curated from a verified network of

     accomplished individuals in New York, across the U.S., and internationally.

    Choosing WuMa means choosing a service that values privacy, professionalism, and long-term relationship success, ensuring each client’s path to love is meaningful,

     efficient, and truly bespoke.

  • WUMA’s clients are accomplished, intentional individuals who value quality over quantity and are genuinely interested in building meaningful, long-term relationships. They often lead full professional lives and prefer a discreet, personalized approach rather than traditional dating apps.

    Our clients typically appreciate:

    • Privacy and discretion

    • Thoughtful, human-led matchmaking

    • A refined, well-curated experience

    • Connections with like-minded individuals who share similar values and goals

    While our clients come from diverse backgrounds, they are united by a shared intention: approaching relationships with seriousness, maturity, and purpose.

  • Monthly – $14.99 / month

    Quarterly – $39.99 / 3 months

    Annual – $129.99 / year

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    3. How to Manage Your Cookie Preferences
    You can manage or disable cookies through your browser settings. Please note that disabling certain cookies may affect the functionality of the site.

    4. How We Use the Information Collected
    The information we collect through cookies is used solely to improve site experience, analyze user behavior, and deliver personalized advertisements. We do not sell this information to third parties.

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    6. Changes to This Policy
    We may update this Cookie Policy from time to time. In case of significant changes, we will notify you through a site announcement or other means.

    Contact Us
    If you have any questions about this policy or would like to learn more about our privacy practices, please contact us at +1(718)-301-3011.


International & Inclusive

Every candidate undergoes rigorous screening, identity verification, and reference checks to maintain the trust and safety of our network.

  • Yes. WuMa International specializes in cross-border matchmaking and proudly serves clients from both the United States and China, as well as other international locations.

     Our network is built to connect globally minded professionals who value cultural understanding and are open to serious relationships that may extend beyond borders.

    With matchmakers who understand both Eastern and Western values, WuMa provides a unique bridge for individuals seeking partners across cultures. Whether you are

     based in New York, another U.S. city, or abroad, WuMa ensures you receive the same personalized, discreet, and professional matchmaking experience.

  • WUMA International serves clients across the United States, China, and other key global regions. Our network is thoughtfully built to connect internationally minded professionals who are serious about forming meaningful, long-term relationships whether locally or across borders.

    Through a combination of an exclusive international member base and highly personalized matchmaking, WUMA enables clients to meet compatible partners worldwide while upholding the highest standards of privacy, discretion, and professionalism.

  • At this time, WuMa International focuses exclusively on heterosexual matchmaking between men and women who are seeking serious, long-term relationships.

     While we deeply respect and value the diversity of the LGBTQ+ community, our services are currently tailored to clients whose relationship goals align with our specific

     matchmaking focus.

  • Yes, when appropriate and with the client’s consent, family involvement can be thoughtfully incorporated into the WUMA matchmaking process. We understand that for some clients particularly in certain cultural contexts family perspective and values play an important role in relationship decisions.

    Any involvement is handled discreetly and respectfully, and always guided by the client’s preferences. Our priority remains ensuring that the process feels comfortable, aligned, and supportive of the client’s personal goals, while maintaining privacy and professionalism at every stage.

Trust & Success

Most clients receive their first curated match within 4–6 weeks. Learn what influences pacing and how your concierge keeps you informed.

  • WUMA does not define success by a fixed percentage. Meaningful relationships are deeply personal and influenced by many individual factors that cannot be accurately measured by numbers alone.

    Instead, we measure success through the quality of our matches, the long-term relationships formed, and the positive experiences of our clients. Through our personalized process, careful selection, and strict verification standards, many clients have gone on to build committed and lasting partnerships.

    Our focus remains on intention, discretion, and compatibility creating the strongest possible foundation for meaningful, long-term connection.


  • Yes. WUMA has helped many clients form meaningful connections and lasting relationships through our personalized matchmaking approach. While every journey is unique and outcomes naturally vary, our success is reflected in the long-term partnerships and positive experiences shared by our clients.

    You are welcome to explore our Success Stories section to see selected examples. For reasons of privacy and discretion, not all clients choose to share their experiences publicly however, the stories featured reflect genuine connections created through WUMA.

  • WUMA is designed for individuals who value discretion, intention, and meaningful connection over casual dating or app-based matching. Our service may be right for you if you are seeking a personalized, human-led approach and are genuinely open to building a long-term relationship.

    Through an initial consultation, our team takes the time to understand your expectations, lifestyle, and goals. This conversation helps determine whether WUMA’s approach aligns with what you’re looking for, ensuring clarity and mutual fit before moving forward.

    If you appreciate a refined, thoughtful process and prefer quality over quantity, WUMA may be an excellent match for you.

Getting Started

Our relationship coaches provide feedback, date debriefs, and confidence coaching so you feel supported at every step.

  • Becoming a member of WUMA begins with a private application and consultation. This allows us to understand your background, relationship goals, and whether our service is the right fit for you.

    Once your application is reviewed and approved, you will be guided through our onboarding process, which includes identity verification and profile development with a dedicated matchmaker. Membership is selective to ensure the quality, discretion, and integrity of our community.

    Our team will walk you through each step personally, ensuring a seamless and refined experience from the very beginning.

  • Before joining WUMA, we encourage you to take a moment to reflect on your relationship goals, values, and expectations. This clarity allows your matchmaker to understand you more deeply and curate more meaningful introductions.

    You may also be asked to prepare:

    • Basic personal information for verification purposes

    • Recent professional photos  high-quality images that authentically reflect your personality and lifestyle (our team can provide guidance if needed)

    • A small selection of additional photos and, where appropriate, a short video

    • Openness to sharing your story, lifestyle, and preferences with your matchmaker

    Most importantly, we invite you to come with an open mind and genuine intention. WUMA’s process is thoughtful and highly personalized, and the more openly you engage, the more effectively we can support you in finding the right connection.

  •  The timeline varies based on your profile, preferences, and the availability of compatible matches. After onboarding and verification are completed, your matchmaker begins the selection process immediately.

    Because WUMA focuses on quality over speed, introductions are made thoughtfully rather than rushed. Some clients may be introduced to potential matches relatively soon, while others may require additional time to ensure the right fit. Throughout the process, your matchmaker keeps you informed and aligned on next steps, prioritizing meaningful connections over quick introductions.

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